January 26, 2016

Meal Planning: The Menu Board & Shopping Lists

If you're anything like me, you have to have a game plan when it comes to feeding the family. For a lot of us, though, just thinking about all the meals that have to be prepared can be overwhelming.

So today, I'm going to show you what works for me. I've been using this system for years and years (and years) and it truly is the only one that works for my family. In fact, this system was passed on to me thru my mother. She used it when we were kids, and I've taken it, and put it on steroids. (Because I like to put everything on steroids.)

Following a meal plan streamlines the whole dinner process. I never have to ask myself what to make, because I KNOW what I'm making. I've also found that it's a pretty easy process to follow, because I am rarely "in the mood" for a specific dish.

Since all these next bits go together, I'm going to just dive right in and explain as I go. 

First up, my menu board: 


I have seven library card pockets attached to a cork board. On the bottom right, I have all the dinners listed on a 5x7 laminated sheet. Yes, it is redundant, but I do this so that I can see, at a glance, what dinners I have all the ingredients for.

On the front of the pocket, I have that day's breakfast and lunch listed (Breakfast and lunch don't change. They are the same week to week!). Inside each pocket is a 3x5 dinner card.

Let's look a little closer now. 


As you can see, each dinner card has the ingredients listed. This is SUPER, MEGA IMPORTANT, because it lets the other members of the household help in the dinner prep. I can't tell you how many times I've been running late, and have needed someone else to get dinner going. It's really easy to pull out the card, and get started on dinner prep. Also, the cards are laminated, so it's no big deal if something spills on it. 

Another reason I like to list the ingredients on the card is because it is super helpful when you are putting together your grocery shopping list. It's even important to add the condiments you use, because if you're having burgers and french fries, I'm pretty sure you'll want ketchup. You might even need to add Worcestershire sauce to that card, because you use it to season your hamburger patties. You have to be very thoughtful about ALL the different items it takes to make that particular dinner. 

You'll also notice that I have the breakfast and lunch options listed on the front of the card. Currently, I only have one option listed for each meal, for each day of the week. This will be getting an upgrade soon, because we started bringing our own lunches to school. ($4.50 per kid, per day.... No thank you.) What I've been doing is a week 1/week 2 option, and I've adjusted my shopping list accordingly.

Speaking of shopping lists, let's take a closer look at mine.


I have my shopping list divided into sections: produce, meat, canned goods, staples, deli, ethnic, condiments, dairy, bakery, frozen, miscellaneous, non-food, baking needs, and sale.  Having it divided saves me time, saves me money, and lets me send helpers around the store to gather things.

My basic grocery list is limited to breakfast and lunch menu items. I don't have any dinner items included, so that I can have a starting point for the next part.... which is deciding what meals work together in a given week, and what meals don't.

For example, if I'm going to have roast chicken for dinner one night, I will also choose a dinner that utilizes the leftovers from that meal, meaning that we will have a chicken noodle soup on that same meal plan. Another great example is chili. Chili is a hearty dish on it's own. Leftover chili makes an awesome topping for baked potatoes. Extra chopped veggies go great in omelets and stir-fry dishes.

SO. I have breakfast and lunch figured out. And I have all these dinners that my family likes to eat. The next step is MORE ORGANIZING.

I have my meal plans set for two weeks at a time. This means I am shopping for 14 days of food for my family at a time. However, it only includes 13 dinners. In every meal plan, I have a "Cook's Choice" card. This is your get out of jail free card. Cook's Choice night might mean Taco Bell. It might mean leftovers. It might mean you're trying out a new recipe. The point is, it's YOUR CHOICE.

If you want to do one week at a time, then pick 6 dinners that  work well together (or 7 if you're so inclined). Then, you will add the ingredients for that dinner to your grocery list. Be sure to include ALL the items you need to make that dinner. Then, as you are adding to your list, use tally marks to add up the amount of a particular item. You don't want to write "potatoes" on the list, then not have enough for everyone. Or you get too much, which is just as bad!

I also want to remind you that IT'S OKAY to have repeats. If you have pizza every Friday night, then you have pizza every Friday night. Do what works for your family! (Besides, there are a million variations of pizza... and enchiladas)

After you have all your meals figured out, then it's just putting everything together to work for you. Check over your lists, and you dinner cards. Then you just print it up and you're *almost* ready to hit the store!

Once you have the meals planned, and your grocery list in hand, SHOP YOUR HOUSE. Open the fridge and pantry, cross off items you already have enough of. If you have 8 boxes of spaghetti noodles, you probably don't need to buy it on this trip. (Unless of course, there is a killer sale on boxed pasta.) Shopping your house is key to saving money at the store. Plus, it keeps you on top of what's running low, or needs to be eaten fast. It's also great, because your list might say you need 5 cans of cream of chicken, and you have 3 on hand. Just cross out the five, and put a 2. You're not over buying anything, and you'll start to shop more efficiently.

Another bonus to this menu system  is that you will begin to see what items you use regularly. I have a "best price" list that I keep, so I can know if an item is really a good deal or not. Tomato sauce on sale for $0.59 is not a great price, but $0.29 a can means I'm getting 10.

I feel like this is a lot of info to digest. Do you have any other questions or need any clarifications? Otherwise, get on it! 

January 15, 2016

Meal Planning a la Caroline + 101 Dinner Ideas


Earlier this week, I went grocery shopping. I had a set time frame (one hour, which is how long a boy scout meeting lasts), a set budget, and my list of what I needed.

There are six people in my family: my husband and myself, two boys, and two girls. Everybody eats an adult sized portion. On a given day, each person in my home eats breakfast, lunch, dinner, and I plan for two snacks: one to be eaten at school, and one for after school. Not including the snacks, here's what  I know:

  • 1 person = 3 meals  per day 
  • 6 people =  18 meals 
  • 1 week/6 people = 126 meals
  • 2 weeks/6 people = 252 meals

My grocery bill came up just shy of $120, which rounds out to about $0.48 per person, per meal, and like I said, that doesn't even include the snacks.

Now before I move on, I want to answer a few questions.

  • Do I use coupons? No, not really. For one thing, I don't have the time or printer ink to do all that. Also, I live on top of a mountain, and we have ONE very nice grocery store. We do not have Walgreens, and CVS, and Target, and Wal-Mart, and Harris Teeter, and etc. etc. etc. We have a Smith's. In the summer, we also have a farmer's market, but only on Thursdays, and only until noon, and I never remember it, and I don't carry cash. My options for grocery shopping are supremely limited. 
  • How often does my family eat meat? It kind of depends, but I'd say 3-4 dinners each week include meat. The meat is rarely the main event at our house. I would say that 3/4 of our plates are filled with vegetables and a starch. I use mushrooms a lot, because textually, they are meaty. In fact, I tell my kids all the time that mushrooms are the meat of the vegetable world. We have also "tricked" a lot of children into accidentally eating mushrooms, and enjoying them. 
  • What about food allergies? What about them? We DO have food allergies at our house. We also have food intolerance's, and food preferences. As far as preferences go, I don't care what you like. Something I say all the time is, "I am not a restaurant. I do not take orders." I also have a sign in my kitchen that says "Today's Menu: Eat it or Starve". But I'm getting off track. Food allergies: shellfish and white fish. Food intolerance's: dairy, yeast, and preservatives. 
  • Do you eat any fresh food? Oh my life, YES. Yes, yes, yes. We love our fresh fruits and veggies. When I'm deciding what to eat, and in what order, I go fresh to frozen. For example, dinners featuring leafy greens are eaten first, because they go bad first. Meanwhile, carrots and cabbages can last quite a while. This is why I love menu planning, because it helps me to feed my family good, home-cooked food, without going crazy, losing sleep, or murdering anyone. 

In a nutshell, here's what I do. 

Breakfast and Lunch are the same week to week. This means that on Monday, we have a breakfast sandwich, and then a turkey wrap for lunch. Tuesday, we have rice for breakfast, and homemade chicken nuggets for lunch. Wednesday is breakfast burritos, and soup. You get the idea. 

Dinners are where the fun begins. 

I have color-coded menu plans and shopping lists. My Basic Shopping List only includes the food items needed for Breakfasts and Lunches. It also includes all the different household supplies we need, because my grocery budget/toilet paper budget is one and the same. 

NOW. Before I go any further into explaining how my meal-planning system is set up, I need YOU to do some homework. 

Step One: Grab a pencil and paper, and WRITE DOWN all the dinners you LIKE to eat, all the dinners you WOULD like to eat, and what your FAMILY eats.

Step Two: Think of accompanying side dishes. Make sure you have a vegetable! Include an extra starch if you're a bread person, or have children who are always hungry. (Really though, why are they always hungry?) 

Thinking of dinners is the hardest part of menu planning, so I'm going to share what WE eat around here. There's 101 dinner ideas, which means that you could go almost 4 months with no repeats. If that's not glorious, I don't know what is. Feel free to steal/copy any dinner ideas that sound good to you! 

1. 7 Layer Burritos
2. Bacon and Green Bean Pasta Toss
3. Baked Potato Bar
4. Baked Potato Soup W/ Rolls
5. BBQ Chicken W/ Cornbread + Green Beans
6. Bean and Cheese Quesadilla
7. Bean and Corn Salad
8. Beef Stew
9. Beef Stroganoff W/ Peas
10. BLT Sandwich + Potato Salad
11. Broccoli Cheese Soup
12. Burrito Bowls
13. Cabbage Stew W/ Sourdough Bread
14. Café Rio Copycat
15. Calzones + Hot Wings
16. Cheese Enchiladas W/ Rice + Beans
17. Cherry Cheese Blintzes
18. Chicken Broccoli Casserole
19. Chicken Cacciatore W/ Green Beans
20. Chicken Caesar Salad
21. Chicken Delicious Over Rice
22. Chicken Dumplings
23. Chicken Mole Taco W/ Avocado + Spanish Rice
24. Chicken Noodle Soup
25. Chicken Parmesan W/ Green Beans
26. Chicken Pot Pie
27. Chicken Salad Sandwiches
28. Chicken Tenders With Oven Fries + Coleslaw
29. Chicken Tortilla Soup
30. Chili + Cornbread
31. Chinese Sundaes (Aka Hawaiian Haystacks)
32. Cilantro Lime Chicken
33. Clam Chowder W/ Rolls
34. Cobb Salad
35. Corn Chowder
36. Cranberry Pork Roast W/ Roast Potatoes + Green Beans
37. Creamy Chicken & Rice Soup
38. Egg Muffins
39. Egg Salad Sandwich
40. Eggplant Parmesan
41. Fajitas + Rice + Beans
42. Fettuccine Alfredo W/ Steamed Vegetables
43. Fish Filet W/ Baked Potato + Spinach
44. French Onion Soup W/ Club Sandwich
45. French Toast W/ Bacon + Eggs
46. Fried Chicken W/ Corn + Green Beans
47. Frittata
48. Goulash W/ Green Vegetable
49. Green Salad W/ Breadsticks
50. Grilled Cheese + Tomato Soup
51. Grilled Chicken Over Salad Greens
52. Hamburgers & French Fries
53. Herbed Chicken W/ Warm Tomato Vinaigrette On Salad Greens
54. Hot Dogs W/ Fries + Pickle
55. Huevos Rancheros
56. Indian Fry Bread
57. Island Broiled Chicken W/ Wild Mushroom Rice + Broccoli
58. Lasagna W/ Garlic Bread + Green Beans
59. Macaroni and Cheese
60. Meatballs + Mashed Potato
61. Meatloaf W/ Mixed Vegetables
62. Minestrone Soup
63. Nacho’s Supreme
64. Omelets
65. Orange Chicken Stir Fry
66. Pancakes W/ Hash Brown, Eggs, Sausage, And Orange Juice
67. Pasta Salad
68. Pita Sandwiches
69. Pizza And Salad
70. Pizza Donuts
71. Pollo Fundido W/ Lettuce + Tomato
72. Pork Chops W/ Broccoli Bacon Salad
73. Pork Chops W/ Stuffing, Applesauce, Peas
74. Posse Stew
75. Pot Roast W/ Root Vegetable
76. Potato Leek Soup
77. Potato Surprise
78. Pulled Pork Sandwich W/ Baked Beans
79. Ravioli W/ Green Beans
80. Red Beef Enchilada’s With Spanish Rice
81. Reuben Sandwich W/ Oven Fries + Pickle
82. Rigatoni Bolognese
83. Roast Chicken W/ Carrots + Boiled Potatoes
84. Salsa Chicken
85. Shepherd’s Pie
86. Shish Kabobs Over Rice
87. Sloppy Joes W/ Potato Salad
88. Spaghetti W/ Garlic Bread + Green Beans
89. Steaks W/ Mashed Potatoes + Green Salad
90. Strawberry Spinach Salad
91. Stuffed Bell Peppers
92. Stuffed Tomatoes
93. Sub Sandwich W/ Chips + Pickle
94. Sweet and Sour Chicken W/ Egg Rolls + Rice
95. Taco Salad
96. Tacos
97. Tamales
98. Thanksgiving Casserole W/ Candied Yams
99. Tuna Noodle Casserole
100. Veggie Lo-Mein
101. Veggie Stir-Fry W/ Rice + Egg Rolls

January 13, 2016

Weekly Update


  • I applied to UNM. They have a studio art program that I really want to take. It's nice to live in a town that has an actual campus, instead of trying to do online classes in the middle of nowhere. 
  • After this past weekend, I feel  like I can officially state, without any shadow of a doubt, that science fair projects are THE WORST. And I have banned all future group projects. Blayne's group STILL hasn't finished putting their board together... And it was due two days ago. So she will be heading to her friend's house after school today, and they better get it done. Also, there was far too much emotion surrounding these projects. Emotional breakdowns were the standard this last weekend. Emotional breakdowns = THE WORST. 
  • I found a stupid purse that I really, really want. it's not fancy or anything, but it's the exact purse that I have been searching for. It's a cross body travel bag that has zippers and pockets galore. I NEED this bag. But it costs a bit more than I currently have available. Ugh, budgets are dumb. 
  • I've started watching some little girls a few hours a week. They're super sweet and fun. 
  • We have our activity day planning meeting today. We're going to brainstorm all the fun/cool stuff we want to do this year, then Julie and I will have our planning meeting to decide whether or not we can do all the ideas. (Because I guarantee there will be at least 5 ideas that we just have to veto.)
  • Thaddeus has been passing the sacrament at church. It makes me feel so warm and fuzzy on the inside to watch him. He takes his job very seriously, and I love it. 
  • It's danged cold here. It was only 8 degrees when the kids left for school the other day. Plus, it was windy, so it was actually much colder. I don't even open the blinds in my house, because closed blinds help keep the cold out, and considering the age/draftiness of this house, we need all the help we can get. 
  • I've been a very good homemaker lately when it comes to dinner prep. I used my menu/grocery plan last time, and for REALS, it was glorious. I didn't have to think about anything, I knew I had all the ingredients on hand, and it was awesome. Even when the fridge got looking at little empty, I knew that I had everything I needed to make breakfast, lunch, and dinner. It was great! And considering I spent $250, and that that fed 6 people for 2 full weeks? I mean, COME ON! Why haven't I been utilizing my menu's the way I should? 
  • I've been working my way back to blonde. I think going from red to blonde is way harder than going brunette to blonde. And I'm going to blonde so that I can have fun colors again. I'm done with this conservative nonsense.

January 1, 2016

Happy 2016

January 1, 2016.

This year is going to be awesome. I already decided that it's going to be one of the best years EVER for my family. I think 95% of life is this is dictated strictly by attitude, and thus, I can personally guarantee this year to be amazeballs.

Also, I have been thinking long and hard about resolutions. I've never really gotten into the whole New Years Resolutions thing before, because I never really felt compelled to make any big life changes. And I suppose that the few things I have resolved aren't really all that "big" to some people, but they are to ME, and that's what counts. (Not that I don't mind your opinions and such... I just don't really care what you think is all.) At any rate, my 2016 resolutions: No Soda. No Swearing. No 'Scuses.

Now I'm not saying I have a potty mouth, but I do have a terrible habit of cursing when I get angry or annoyed. So I'm going to stop. I also am going off Dr. Pepper. This is a HUGE DEAL for me, because I consume a LOT of this magical drink. If it was alcohol, I would be dead, because my liver would have exploded by now. At one time, I was totally off all soda, and I need to get back to that happy place. I think the next few days might be pretty miserable, but I have some Excedrin Migraine for when the caffeine/sugar withdrawals hit.

I also have resolved to resurrect the blogs. Yes, I'm talking about this one, but also Mormon Mommy Blogs and Peonies and Poppyseeds. And don't bother clicking on Peonies and Poppyseeds link. I haven't paid for my hosting, because I'm moving it BACK to blogger. I love the Wordpress platform and extensions and all that, but I don't like the price tag that comes with it. BECAUSE I'M A BIG CHEAPSKATE. Seriously though, I hate paying for a server. HATES IT.

Anyways, HAPPY NEW YEAR FOLKS!


December 2015

December always starts out with a BANG around here.

On December 1, Blayne turned 11. She had a great day, and we are so lucky to have her in our family.

The next day, December 2, Thaddeus turned 12. This is a big birthday in the Mormon world, because it means you graduate from Primary to Young Men's. It also means that Thaddeus can be ordained as a deacon, and pass the sacrament at church.

Sadly, Thaddeus' actual birthday was hectic, because it was a Wednesday, and there was mutual, which Thaddeus now goes to, and Troy was in charge of a combined activity.... which means I was in charge of a combined activity for the Young Men and Young Women of our ward. The kids and I put together a super fun Christmas themed Minute-to-Win-It game night. We divided the kids into three teams, and they had silly tasks to do with only ONE MINUTE to finish the best they could. If no one could complete a task in time, then the point went to whoever got the farthest the fastest.

The first event was a relay race. First, they had a wreath around their necks. Then, they had to blow up a balloon to put between their knees (to waddle like a penguin), and walk across the gym to pass the wreath to the next person on their team, BUT you could not use your hands. It was so funny to see these kids trying to get the wreath off their necks and on to the next person. The trick was that the passee needed to kneel down so the passer could just bow their head and have the wreath fall off onto the passee.

The next game was a marshmallow (snowball) toss. Each team got a bag of marshmallows and a bucket, and they had to toss the snowball into the bucket (it was about 6 feet away). The winner was whoever had the most marshmallows in their bucket.

Then we played "Do You Hear What I Hear?". The kids and I had wrapped up gifts for each team, and inside the boxes was jingle bells. BUT, every box had a different number of bells. The object of the game was to put the boxes in order from quietest to loudest. Now, after them finished this game, we moved on to the next before we figured out who won. This was because our next event was unwrapping the gifts.... with oven mitts on  your hands. (This is where the whole who got farthest the fastest in important) When the minute was up, we awarded points to the teams. Then we had them unwrap the remaining gifts and count the jingle bells. Each team got a point for every box that was correctly placed.... Some of the kids really need to work on their listening skills. :)

We also had an ornament conveyor belt challenge, and a whipped cream Christmas tree challenge. It was tons of fun, and a great night for everyone.

Then my parents came to town to see Thaddeus be ordained. Troy's parents also drove up for the ordination.

After that, it was the Christmas Band and Orchestra concert. Everyone did really well and it's exciting to see them progressing in their musical abilities.

We also had a Creche Show, the ward Christmas brunch, the church Christmas program, Primary Teacher appreciation dinner, a Christmas party with the Christensen's, book club, and Tamale making. Plus, the ice rink opened, so their's been ice skating and school Christmas parties.

On top of all this, the kids were DYING to earn some cash. I said I would be happy to make cookies, and they could sell them.... WELL. Blayne is quite the saleswoman and persuaded a ton of teachers and friends to buy cookies. Except we had to have a little heart-to-heart because she was taking orders for different kinds of cookies, and I only agreed to make sugar cookies, NOT chocolate chip, NOT peanut butter, NOT gluten free. Regular, old, sugar cookies with my super delicious vanilla almond buttercream frosting. And sugar cookies were quite a production, because things bake a little differently up here on the mountain tops. I threw quite a few cookies into the garbage, before I tweaked my original recipe to work up here. Everybody really like the cookies, and the kids made a lot of money, so everyone was happy. (And don't worry, I made sure to take my cut for ingredient and labor cost.)

Then of course we had Christmas Adam, Christmas Eve, and Christmas. Needless to say, we were busy little beavers, and I was really glad that I had finished all my Christmas shopping and whatnot in November. The kids got bikes, and have been riding non-stop ever since. They also got a few other things, but BIKES were the big surprise. It was a great day, and we are so blessed to have had such a great year.










November 2015

After we recovered from Halloween, it was time to go full AUTUMN.

We ended up going to Arizona for Thanksgiving. It was a little strange because we've been on our own for the holidays for the longest time, and it was just WEIRD to not plan a menu and do our usual stuff. (Pies for lunch, turkey for dinner.... best thing ever.)

We stayed with Troy's parents, and got to hang out with all the Bingham cousins. It was a ton of fun.

One day, all the Bingham girls, Grandma, me, Blayne,  Taylor, Marie, Ellie, Sadie, Jessica, Kambry, and Maddie, drove over to Scottsdale to see the American Girl store. YOU GUYS. I almost died. It was MAGICAL in there. And the dolls! And the accessories! I wanted everything, my girls wanted everything... We settled with getting shirts for ourselves and our dolls. Twins for life!

Also, the Christmas tree was pink and purple and SPARKLES. It was basically Blayne's dream Christmas tree. Also, in my head, I knew that my kids were the oldest of the Bingham cousins, but when all the kids would stand together, I was like, "OH! My kids are BIG!" The next oldest kids turn eight next summer, when my baby, Taylor, will be nine. It was just a weird thing for me to actually notice.

Since we haven't lived near family for so long, we haven't had family pictures taken for a long while. Family photos were definitely on the agenda, and I think they turned out pretty great. And yes, I currently have red hair.













Halloweekend 2015

We have had a super fun weekend here in Los Alamos. They  go ALL OUT for Halloween. We're talking parties, and parades, and special performances. 


Thaddeus was a lumberjack, Blayne was Isabella Bird Thorne (or a beautiful girl from the 1800's), Daniel was a hot dog, and Taylor was a little devil (at least on this particular day... she wore a different costume to every event).

We went trick or treating downtown. It was a lot of fun! They closed off the road, and all the shops had tables outside and were passing out candy and toys and lots of stuff. At the hardware store, they had a wheelbarrow FULL of candy, and they literally took a shovel of candy, and dropped it in our buckets. My kids made out like bandits. In fact, when we got home, they gave me all their reject candy, and that's what we passed out on Halloween night.

Meanwhile, do you see this weeping angel? We HAD to take a picture with her. This was by far the best costume, because the girl that was wearing it would just FREEZE and not move. She was super creepy, and scared so many people. It was hilarious and fun to watch. Also, if you don't know anything about the weeping angels, then you need to watch some Dr. Who and get your geek on.

We also attended our church's Trunk or Treat. I put the kids in charge of decorating our car, and they did a fantastic job. They took some branches from our trees and made the back of the car look like a haunted forest. They strung spider webs across the branches, and then they put our creepy stuff all around: skulls, ravens, pumpkins, etc. For the trunk or treat, Taylor wanted to be a dead girl, so we painted her face like a sugar skull, and she wore her black cloak over a black and white polka-dotted dress. All in all, we had a wonderful time!